A funeral mass was held July 1 at Our Lady of Fatima Church for Bettylou Cafiero, 78, of North Bergen. She passed away June 27. After retiring from the fashion industry, she became a teachers’ aide and enjoyed working with children. Throughout her life she served as a Girl Scout leader of the Pavonia Council, and Cub Scout Den mother. A member of the NJ Elks Lodge, she served as one their first female officers. An avid theater and music enthusiast, and active performer in local theater, she was a singer with a classical soprano vocal range.She was the wife of the late Mario Cafiero, her husband of 55 years; mother of son John Cafiero and his wife Suzanne, and daughter Rita Stampe and her husband Thomas; grandmother of Gabrielle, Sabrina and Kellianne; and was also survived by many nieces and nephews.Services arranged by the Vainieri Funeral Home, North Bergen.